Well for those of you that don't know Harper will be having her surgery on Tuesday the 19th of July.
We go in around 7.30am from there I will take her back while they sedate her (gas). After that the anesthesist will spend about 1.5 hours getting her ready for the surgery, then the surgery itself will take around 4 hours. In this time they will reshape Harper's forhead and orbital (eyebrow) bone. When the surgeons are finished the anesthesist spends another 30mins with her (lines etc.) then she is transferred to her room. So all up she will be in surgery for around 6 hours.
After surgery her head will be bandaged (she will have an ear to ear zig zig incision), but she won't have any drains in her head. She will have lines for fluids and pain medication. We will be in hospital for around 5-6 nights and should be coming home on or before the following Monday. I will be staying with her the whole time (there is a foldout armchair in her room). After surgery our biggest concern is swelling, it used to be that almost all babies following this procedure had their eyes swell shut for a few days. It just breaks my heart to think of my little girl going through such a major surgery and then not being able to see where she is or what is happening to her :( Our surgeons are using new injections now that greatly minimise the swelling and sometimes the eyes do not swell shut, but because they are working so close to her eyes (orbital bones) I am not hopefull. We have to be careful with her head for 6 weeks following her surgery and after that it is pretty much business as usual.
I am really not doing to well in the lead up to the surgery, even though I have know for months that it was coming, the day I recieved the date I broke down in tears. But, I have to be strong for Harper, she is going to need me now more than ever. But I'm a Mum, we worry, that's our job!
On Wednesday we took Harper for a neuropsycholgy evaluation and I recieved the results today. It's not great news, as I expect she is a little delayed. The neuropsychologist is almost certain that it is caused by her cranio and that she should catch up after the surgery. Luckily Harper is scheduled for surgey in 2 1/2 weeks anyway otherwise they would be looking at bringing her surgery forward. But as long as she is still progressing and not going backwards they aren't too concerned.
She is delayed in language, understanding and slightly delayed in motor skills. I was certain she was behind in her language but everyone else I spoke to told me it was normal (10 months and only babbles the one the sylable, dadadada). She is also small for age which I think fools people into thinking she is on target, she looks about 7 months and is probably at the 7 month level of development.
Luckily she is only little and she hasn't fallen too far behind. Our Neuropsychologist said that sometimes it is like a lightbulb switches on after surgery and the babies improve remarkably. That's what I'm hoping for!
Here is Harper at 10 months old, my little princess :)